The Love Dare: Day 3 – Not Selfish

Day 3: Love is Not Selfish

Be kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love, in honor giving preference to one another. Romans 12:10


Whatever you put your time, energy, and money into will become more important to you. It’s hard to care for something you are not investing in. Along with restraining from negative comments, buy your spouse something that says, “I was thinking of you today.”

The Love Dare is a 40-day challenge for husbands and wives to understand and practice unconditional love. You can do it as a couple, or if your marriage is in trouble, do it as an individual, for your marriage, out of obedience to Christ. Each day has a challenging lesson on love, followed by a ‘dare’ for the day, and space to journal how it went. For more information visit Fireproof My Marriage

I would ask for you all to pray for us as we embark on this journey, and let me know if I can pray for you as well. Click here to start from Day 1!

If you’re participating in The Love Dare, I would love to hear from you! Add your link to our McLinky so we can all pray for each other!


  • Rebecca January 5, 2010 at 10:50 am

    Good for you! Love Dare is a great book and Fireproof was awesome!

  • Beth January 5, 2010 at 12:02 pm

    I have heard good things about Love Dare. I pray that it will be an instrument in your marriage.

  • Mama to 4 January 5, 2010 at 4:07 pm

    That's funny because I started The Love Dare today, a friend of mine told me to check out your blog (which I love) because you had posts about The Love Dare. I am glad to see other women doing this! 🙂 God bless you! :)Nicole

  • Confessions of a Homeschooler January 5, 2010 at 9:17 pm

    Oh, that's a great idea, I'll add a McLinky too I've been meaning to do that at some point.

  • Mama to 4 January 6, 2010 at 2:23 am

    Great! Thanks for adding your blog to my McKlinky, I added mine to yours! :)How is the Love Dare going for you?


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